"supposed to"

Most people that know me, know that I don't like the phrase "supposed to" (or "should"), and that is generally true. This is mainly because I feel a lot of people use the phrase incorrectly, stifling theirs and other's agency. But I have to be honest, there are several times when I wish I could just know whether or not I'm doing what I'm supposed to.

...this is definitely one of those times.